transgender

individuals adopt a gender identity that differs from one assigned birth women have more close friends and involves more self disclosure and support

______listen at length to what a friend says

women

______involves keeping distances while sharing info doesnt talk about weakness, seek practical solutions to their problems

men

cross friendships

common in adults more than kids, provide opportunities and problems, learning about feelings and shared characteristics

problems that cross friendship is

sexual bounds

deborah tannen

analyzed women and men talk, and found wives complain about husband not listening

rapport talk

used to establish relationships

____use rapport and _____use report

women, men

report talk

talk that is designed to convey info

divorce strategy

view as growth, make carefully decisions, focus on future, cope with difficulties, don't give up

how old do parent become

20-30

John Gottman

see how marriage works using physiological measures to chart heart rate, blood pressure, blood flow, and immune functions

establishing love map

deep connection with partners

nurturing fondes and adminstration

respect, appreciation, compliments

letting your partner influence

equal and compromise

creating shared memories

sharing goods and achieving

individualism and commitment ambivalence

guide couple into we and develop strong commitment

meaning of and attributes about marriage

help clarify themselves and partner/ attitude

premartial relationship history and experiences

focuses on challenges

effects of media

explore the effects on martial attitudes and behaviors

cohabiting adults

living together in sexual relationship without being married

Andrew Orlien

stated that US has more marriages and divorces than more countries

Sternberg

love can be thought as a triangle with 3 dimensions

passion

physical/ sexual attraction to another

intimacy

warmth, closeness, and sharing in relationship

commitment

cognitive part and the intent to maintain the relationship

infatuation

has passion

affectionate

has intimacy and commitment

fatuous

has passion and commitment

consummate

has all 3

hormones

endocrine glands and carried throughout the body by the blood stream

hypothalamus

a structure in the brain that monitors eating and sex

Adunals

pre-pubertal changes 5-8 years

pituitary glands

controls growth and regualte others

gonads

testes, ovaries

Boys puberty

10 to 13 1/2

Girls puberty

9 to 15 years

context

induced plasicity

corpus callosum

fibers connecting left and right brain hemisphere

Amygdala

seat of emotions (early adolescence

prefrontal

reasoning decision (18-25)

limbic system

emotions and experiences of rewards

Health and social risks

low birth weight, neurological problems, childhood issues

how many adolescence get adequate sleep

31%

anorexia

relentless pursuit of thinners through starvation

bulimia nervosa

individuals consistently follows a binge and purge patterns

top dog phenomon

moving from top position to convert

service learning

a form of education promotes social responsibility and service to the community

In pregnancy US has the ____rate, ______overall, and __________

highest, decline, ethnic variation

What percentage of divorce has rick health conditions

23%

crisis

period of identity development which the individual is exploring

commitment

personal investment in identity

identity diffusion

has not experienced a crisis or made any commitment

identity foreclosure

made commitment but not crisis

identity moratorium

midst of a crisis, commitment are either absent/defined

ethnic identity

a sense of membership in an ethnic and the attitudes and feelings

autonomy and attachment

competes for control, independence and connection

clique

small group from 2 to 12 liking the same interest

crowd

a larger formed by reputation and don't spend time with each other

11 to 13 dating

intensely interested in romance

14 to 16 dating

causal dating/groups

17 to 19

serious

early bloomers

has experience (11-13)

late bloomers

has no experience

rite of passage

ceremony to mark individuals transitions

juvenile delinquency

breaks the law or engage in illegal behaviors

depression and suicide

15 to 20% of adolescents

factors contribute to depression

genes, gender differences, certain family factors, poor peers

suicide

3rd leading cause 10-24 yr in US

adolescent egocentrism

heightened self-consciousness of adolescents

imaginary audience

belief that others are as interest as them

personal fable

involves a sense of uniquencess and invincibility

executive functions

managing one's thoughts to engage in goal-directed behaviors

G. hall propsoed

storm and stress

Storm and stress

turblent time charged with conflict and mood swings

puberty

provides stimulation for rapid physical changes that occurs in early adolescence

merarche

girls first menstruation

substance abuse

reduced drug and alcohol

extreme binge

10 or more drinks in a row

What age is casual sex more common in

20

Sexual orientation

continuum

_____change pattern more than men

women

Sexual attraction is combined with

genetics , hormonal, cognitive anf environmental factors

STI

diseased contracted primilary through sex

Gonorrhea (Clap)

spread by contact b/w infected membrane of individual

Chalmydia

spread and infect private of both and female become infertile

genital herpes

has sores and blisters

genital warts

small hard bumps in girls anal

piaget view

thinks qualitatively in the same was

11 to 15

formal operational during adulthood

postformal

thinking that is reflectively, relativistic, contexted and influenced by emotions

creativy

early adulthood is a great creavity for come (30 years old)

developmental changes

becomes less idealistic, choosing majors,

12 to 22 have clear vision of that they want to what percentage

20%

self-effiancy

belief that one can master a situation and produce favorable outcomes

growth mindset

qualities can change and improve effort

fixed mindset

qualities are set in stone, lower achievement

extrinisic

doing things to obtain something

intrinisic

doing something for its own sake (opportunities to make choices)

grit

involves passion and persistance in achieving long term goals

Identity v. identity confusion

conflicted on who they should be

psychosocial moratorium

gap b/w childhood security and adult autonomy

experiences in ______ adult leads to determining what you will be like

early

secure attachment style

confident, comfortable

avoidant attachment style

hesitant, distant

anxious attachment style

demanding jealous

haven and shaver

adults who are securely attached in their relationship describes parents relationship as the same

intimacy v. isolation

losing oneself to another failure to do so is social isolation

single adult

dramatic rise in percentage

marriage

decilne rate in US in recent years

divorce takes up to ______in the early marriage

5 to 10

remarriage

50% remarriage after 3 years of divorce