transgender
individuals adopt a gender identity that differs from one assigned birth women have more close friends and involves more self disclosure and support
______listen at length to what a friend says
women
______involves keeping distances while sharing info doesnt talk about weakness, seek practical solutions to their problems
men
cross friendships
common in adults more than kids, provide opportunities and problems, learning about feelings and shared characteristics
problems that cross friendship is
sexual bounds
deborah tannen
analyzed women and men talk, and found wives complain about husband not listening
rapport talk
used to establish relationships
____use rapport and _____use report
women, men
report talk
talk that is designed to convey info
divorce strategy
view as growth, make carefully decisions, focus on future, cope with difficulties, don't give up
how old do parent become
20-30
John Gottman
see how marriage works using physiological measures to chart heart rate, blood pressure, blood flow, and immune functions
establishing love map
deep connection with partners
nurturing fondes and adminstration
respect, appreciation, compliments
letting your partner influence
equal and compromise
creating shared memories
sharing goods and achieving
individualism and commitment ambivalence
guide couple into we and develop strong commitment
meaning of and attributes about marriage
help clarify themselves and partner/ attitude
premartial relationship history and experiences
focuses on challenges
effects of media
explore the effects on martial attitudes and behaviors
cohabiting adults
living together in sexual relationship without being married
Andrew Orlien
stated that US has more marriages and divorces than more countries
Sternberg
love can be thought as a triangle with 3 dimensions
passion
physical/ sexual attraction to another
intimacy
warmth, closeness, and sharing in relationship
commitment
cognitive part and the intent to maintain the relationship
infatuation
has passion
affectionate
has intimacy and commitment
fatuous
has passion and commitment
consummate
has all 3
hormones
endocrine glands and carried throughout the body by the blood stream
hypothalamus
a structure in the brain that monitors eating and sex
Adunals
pre-pubertal changes 5-8 years
pituitary glands
controls growth and regualte others
gonads
testes, ovaries
Boys puberty
10 to 13 1/2
Girls puberty
9 to 15 years
context
induced plasicity
corpus callosum
fibers connecting left and right brain hemisphere
Amygdala
seat of emotions (early adolescence
prefrontal
reasoning decision (18-25)
limbic system
emotions and experiences of rewards
Health and social risks
low birth weight, neurological problems, childhood issues
how many adolescence get adequate sleep
31%
anorexia
relentless pursuit of thinners through starvation
bulimia nervosa
individuals consistently follows a binge and purge patterns
top dog phenomon
moving from top position to convert
service learning
a form of education promotes social responsibility and service to the community
In pregnancy US has the ____rate, ______overall, and __________
highest, decline, ethnic variation
What percentage of divorce has rick health conditions
23%
crisis
period of identity development which the individual is exploring
commitment
personal investment in identity
identity diffusion
has not experienced a crisis or made any commitment
identity foreclosure
made commitment but not crisis
identity moratorium
midst of a crisis, commitment are either absent/defined
ethnic identity
a sense of membership in an ethnic and the attitudes and feelings
autonomy and attachment
competes for control, independence and connection
clique
small group from 2 to 12 liking the same interest
crowd
a larger formed by reputation and don't spend time with each other
11 to 13 dating
intensely interested in romance
14 to 16 dating
causal dating/groups
17 to 19
serious
early bloomers
has experience (11-13)
late bloomers
has no experience
rite of passage
ceremony to mark individuals transitions
juvenile delinquency
breaks the law or engage in illegal behaviors
depression and suicide
15 to 20% of adolescents
factors contribute to depression
genes, gender differences, certain family factors, poor peers
suicide
3rd leading cause 10-24 yr in US
adolescent egocentrism
heightened self-consciousness of adolescents
imaginary audience
belief that others are as interest as them
personal fable
involves a sense of uniquencess and invincibility
executive functions
managing one's thoughts to engage in goal-directed behaviors
G. hall propsoed
storm and stress
Storm and stress
turblent time charged with conflict and mood swings
puberty
provides stimulation for rapid physical changes that occurs in early adolescence
merarche
girls first menstruation
substance abuse
reduced drug and alcohol
extreme binge
10 or more drinks in a row
What age is casual sex more common in
20
Sexual orientation
continuum
_____change pattern more than men
women
Sexual attraction is combined with
genetics , hormonal, cognitive anf environmental factors
STI
diseased contracted primilary through sex
Gonorrhea (Clap)
spread by contact b/w infected membrane of individual
Chalmydia
spread and infect private of both and female become infertile
genital herpes
has sores and blisters
genital warts
small hard bumps in girls anal
piaget view
thinks qualitatively in the same was
11 to 15
formal operational during adulthood
postformal
thinking that is reflectively, relativistic, contexted and influenced by emotions
creativy
early adulthood is a great creavity for come (30 years old)
developmental changes
becomes less idealistic, choosing majors,
12 to 22 have clear vision of that they want to what percentage
20%
self-effiancy
belief that one can master a situation and produce favorable outcomes
growth mindset
qualities can change and improve effort
fixed mindset
qualities are set in stone, lower achievement
extrinisic
doing things to obtain something
intrinisic
doing something for its own sake (opportunities to make choices)
grit
involves passion and persistance in achieving long term goals
Identity v. identity confusion
conflicted on who they should be
psychosocial moratorium
gap b/w childhood security and adult autonomy
experiences in ______ adult leads to determining what you will be like
early
secure attachment style
confident, comfortable
avoidant attachment style
hesitant, distant
anxious attachment style
demanding jealous
haven and shaver
adults who are securely attached in their relationship describes parents relationship as the same
intimacy v. isolation
losing oneself to another failure to do so is social isolation
single adult
dramatic rise in percentage
marriage
decilne rate in US in recent years
divorce takes up to ______in the early marriage
5 to 10
remarriage
50% remarriage after 3 years of divorce